The right lubricant makes a big difference to both comfort and pleasure. Here we cover the three main types and when each works best.
Water-based
The most versatile choice. Works with all materials and condoms, washes off easily and is gentle on skin. May need reapplying as it dries over time.
Silicone-based
Lasts longer and is water-resistant – perfect in the shower. However, don’t use it with silicone toys, as it can degrade the surface. Great with glass and metal.
Oil-based
Moisturising and long-lasting, but breaks down latex condoms and can be harder to wash off. Best for massage rather than with condoms.
Quick summary
- Unsure? Choose water-based – it works almost always
- Silicone toys → use water-based
- With condoms → avoid oil-based
Do a small skin test first if you have sensitive skin.

